The Older I Get, The Less I Care About!

Phillocaliste
3 min readMay 3, 2023

“The older I get, the less I care about the opinions of others, and the more I focus on my own values and beliefs.”

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As I grow older, I have found myself caring less and less about many things that used to consume a lot of my time and energy. Whether it’s petty dramas, social media validation, or impressing others with my accomplishments, I find myself prioritizing things that truly matter to me and letting go of the rest. Through research and personal experience, I have discovered that this shift in mindset is not unique to me, but is a common phenomenon that occurs as we age.

One of the reasons why older adults may care less about certain things is due to a shift in their priorities. As we age, we start to realize the importance of relationships, health, and experiences over material possessions or status symbols. A study conducted by researchers at the University of Michigan found that older adults prioritize social relationships and emotional well-being over financial success and achievement. This is because they have come to understand that these relationships and experiences are what truly bring happiness and fulfillment in life.

Another reason why older adults care less about certain things is due to a decrease in social comparison. Social comparison theory suggests that we evaluate ourselves based on how we compare to…

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Phillocaliste
Phillocaliste

Written by Phillocaliste

Freelance Writer - Indonesia 📍

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